Wondering On A Saturday…

Hello

I have been lacking a lot of inspiration a long time now. I have a lot of things happening in my life but nothing really that exciting. Just random little dumb stuff at university or just hanging out with friends.

But these last couple of day I am beginning to wonder a lot about what love is about and if we all have a happy ending.
I am kinda feeling a little down because of someone close to me having a lot of relationship problems. I truly want to make it better for them but I am in no such position to make their arguments disappear.

I am just wondering and asking myself if people that truly love each other can get over everything and anything and be happy together and have their “happily ever after”.
I am kinda losing my faith in it even though I try to be hopeful and positive, but people around me are just having relationship problems.

Do you believe in happily ever after? Are we all meant for someone, are there somewhere THE ONE for us all?

I know love is hard, believe me I know. Every relationship is hard work and there will be fights and hard times, but if two people realy love each other could someone from the ouside ruin it and is it their fault. Or is it in the end the couple’s fault because they let them?

I don’t know… I was just having one of those moments I guess.

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European Capital of Culture 2017

Last night it was the official opening of the European Capital of Culture 2017 in the city where i live. I was debating wether to go or not, but they kinda decided for me that i SHOULD go with them! And I did not regret it. It was very beautiful and we enjoyed watching the parade, the lights and firework!

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After the things were over we decided that we wanted to eat. That is when the problem of “where to at” occurred. We did end in a burger restaurant which I had never been at and the food was amazing!
The programme for the European Capital of Culture 2017 will be amazing! There will be things from full moon events to performing arts, design and litterature happenings. So if you are nearby Aarhus you should definitely visit!

The next two pictures is from the official instagram account for the capital of culture: aarhus_2017. I wanted to get pictures of the parade and the fireworks but I couldn’t get a good picture myself.

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Pampering With Goodiebox

Another month has gone by and my january has been filled with university work and a lot of exams, so when I recieved my goodiebox I was exceptionally happy!
There is of course nothing new about the goodiebox… Once again it is amazing and once again it is filled with a lot of makeup treasures!

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This time the goodiebox contains:

  1. Gosh Overnight Primer Pil Essence:
    This will give your skin a moisturized and fresh feeling. You Apply this Gosh primer oil before sleeping and you will wake up with a fresh face.
  2. The Body Shop All In-One Instablur Eyes:
    This product can be used under the eyes to cover dark circles and or around the eyes and nose to control redness. It can also be used as a primer before putting on eyeshadow.
  3. Natura Siberica Oblepikha Hand Cream:
    It is already said in the name, but this product is a hand cream and is very good for dry hands and moisturizes them. The moisturizing effect comes from the oil in the cranberry seeds and the hand cream is free of parabens and mineral oils.
  4. Invisibobble The Tracless Hair Ring:
    I think that we all know these by now, but it is always good to have extra. These hair rings are better for your hair  than the normal hairbands because they are gentle on your hair.
  5. Nivea Essentials Facial Cleansing Wipes:
    I think that the name is saying everything that there is to be said about these facial cleansing wipes.
  6. Look Lips Lipgloss:
    A nice lipgloss with a nice color and the best thing is that it is it sticky on the lips.
  7. Être Belle Hydra Power.
    A 3-step face care set. A hydra power fleece mask, a quicklift day and night serum and a day and night cream.16128219_10211988642934311_1362135673_n

 

Would You Rather?

I wanted to make this little fun “Would you rather” -quiz. I wanted to write something but nothing to serious so I thought why not a little cute quizzy-thing. I hope you will enjoy it.

1.Would you rather go out with messy hair and nice make-up or Nice hair and no make-up?
Nice hair and no makeup! I am not really the big make-up girl so I would feel okay going out of the apartment without any makeup on. But I dont like my hair to be crazy. I like my hair washed and pretty.

2.Would you rather shave your eyebrows or have your eyelashes fall out?
Oh dear God, I don’t like either of them, but maybe my eyebrows, because you can maybe try to learn how to draw them but that they look natural.

3.Would you rather be forced to shop at only MAC or Sephora for the rest of your life? Uuh, I might think that I would go MAC.

4.Would you rather wear lipgloss/lipliner look or 80’s perm?
Lipgloss/lipliner all the way!

5.Would you rather leave the house with an obvious foundation line or overdone blush? Overdone blush! I always get so cringy when I see girls with an obvious foundation line! I kinda wanna go over to them and fix it… I really just can’t handle that.

6.Would you rather wear MC Hammer pants or bike shorts in public?
Uuuh, I don’t really want do do anything, but i guess bike shorts… I can just throw a long shirt over the shorts and you won’t be able to see them that much.

7.Would you rather have a bad orange-y spray tan or really weird tan lines that can’t be covered?
I think that I’ll have to go with the weird tan lines.

8.Would you rather have a bad haircut or bad hair color?
Bad hair color… I would always be able to chance it into another color. Or well it depends if I have long hair and the hairdresser did something that just could be cut off or something then I would go with the bad haircut.

9.Would you rather have youtube or twitter taken away forever?
I think twitter. I think that I could live without that, but not really youtube.

10. Would you rather give up using makeup brushes or mascara?
I guess makeup brushes. Especially when I don’t really use makeup that much. So my makeup is more or less only mascara on a daily basis. It’s only a bit more when I have to work or go to parties when I want to be a little more fancy.

 

Happy Holidays from Goodiebox

December is here! That means that my newest Goodiebox has arrived!
This time as always there are a lot of different amazing things! This month I have gotten 8 great things!

I am especially excited to try the Vichy Skin Sleep! It says that it is really good if you don’t get enough sleep and I know that I dont in these times. I have a lot of work, university and of course exams! So when I get the time to sleep I am always feeling bad because I have a lot of things to do and then I lay in bed and I thing about anything and  everything and that leads of course to me not getting my sleep! So if this creme can make my skin look like I had my 8 hours of sleep that would be amazing!

The Karmameju Wild Body Oil looks like it will be fabulous to use! It smells so nice of different citrus fruits and God knows I love my citrus fruit smells!

I can only say as always, that I will really look forward to try these things! I really am happy about the things I got since september. I really never get disappointed. Of course there are things that I might not use, but then if I feel like my mom would like some of the things that I might not use, then I make her a little package with the things because they are really good and a lot of them are really expensive, so instead of just throwing them out they could be something she would use. Or you can always pack a little box of things and give it as a hostess gift or something to a friend.

Thank you so much…

Wow, I can’t believe that I already have had my little blog corner for now a year! This is just crazy…. I remember when I was making it and I had so many insecurities about if anyone would actually read it and what not! I am so thankful that there people reading it and that I have the freedom to write a bit when I get the time and fell that I have something to share!

I would like to thank you all who are following this blog and I am sorry for not being as active and I would like to be, but I am very happy and thankful! I hope that you will continue to follow and to comment and maybe find some inspiration! Even if it’s just that kind of lipbalm you should try buying! I hope that this is only the first year of many!

I wish you all an amazing december and remember to spend some time with your family and friends!

xoxo

The Limit In A Friendship?

Whether it’s a new boyfriend, flirt or even an old boyfriend your good friend is having problems with and you know he is bad news or don’t like him, should you say it? Should we as girls meddle in our friends love life if we don’t approve of her choices or in the relationship she is having?

Of course we all have our reasons for not liking someone and even more so if we think that the flirt or boyfriend is bad for the friend. But how can we say it and not sound mean or jealous? Is there even a way to go that far in someones love life and tell them “I don’t think that you should date him” or even go further and tell your friend that you think they should break up with their boyfriend?

We all care about our friends of want the best for them, but is it the right thing to do? Will we save her from a heartbreak in the future or will we ruin the friendship and create a fight that might lead to the end of a friendship if we speak our minds?

I have had my own experiences with this topic and with my own friends. I am not a huge fan of meddling in other peoples lives and definitly not when it comes to other peoples relationships. I will help my friends in any way I can but I refuse to decide or even lead them in a certain direction when it comes to their love life. Especially when it comes to a couple that has been together for a long time. I always remember and tell myself that I haven’t gone though the things that the two of them have, I dont know him well enough to know how he is and I don’t know their problems and their good times as well as they do. That is why I never want to say to a friend that has been together with a boy to leave him or to stay with him if they are having problems.

But I ask myself, do we meddle too much? Do friends often become the reason why a couple breaks up? Or are we living in a society that relies too much on our friends to “fix” our problems and or take the hard decisions for us?
Are we too scared to do it ourselves that we make our nearest do it for us? And if so, why is that? Are we just simply afraid of doing it, are we just looking for a good advice or are we maybe a bit selfish and giving the decision to someone else, so that we later on can blame someone else than ourselves if we regret it?

I wonder if this will be different in the future or just even worse…?
We might never find out, but maybe there should be a set of rules about this. Because it really can destroy friendships and relationships. Maybe we are just giving advices without thinking that the things we say can affect someones lives. Both in the positive but also in the negative ways.